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When you can enjoy the touch & kiss of another, and be deeply in love with your spouse…

You have discovered the secret of the swing lifestyle!

If you are joining to cheat on your spouse or significant other, or pursue part of a couple for your own agenda “in secret” behind part of that couples back-(single male, single female or couple)-That is CHEATING!! If that is your appetite, you are not welcome at CU. XOXO Cu hosts, D&T & CU playmates!

What is swinging?

Swinging is defined as the interaction between people for the purpose of intimate encounters with someone other than their spouse or significant other.

What if I get jealous?

Being uncomfortable or uptight is normal in the beginning stages.  If you are not excited by the encounter, maybe this lifestyle isn't for you.  Talk about your comfort rules  BEFORE you join as a couple. Remember, you don't have to be with everyone who approaches you.  You have the right to say NO or STOP anytime it quits being fun.  This should be a pleasurable experience, not painful.

How should I dress?

DRESS TO IMPRESS! This is your night out, save the casual for home!   Bring something to change into once you arrive if you wish.  The attire will range anywhere from SEXY risqué' to covered from the mysterious head to toe" SEXY" attire.  It's up to you to decide what's right for you. No baseball caps, dew rags or bandanas allowed at Utopia*

What can I expect?

Expectations are as many as there are people.  Some people like to watch, others like to be watched.  There are those who are looking for a third and others who would like to trade.  Some like to separate and some prefer to stay within an arms length.  Some couples come to enjoy the energy of their club keeping it private to themselves. As you can see, the list goes on. Joining does not mean you have to do anything you do not want to.

What is an on-premise club?

An on-premise club is a club with party rooms and an off-premise club is a social get together with any interaction taking place after you leave the club.  We are an On-Premise club.

I'm single and looking for some action, is this the place to get it?

ABSOLUTELY NOT!!  This is a social club for all members to enjoy equally.  Your rights STOP where theirs start.  Club Utopia is not to be viewed as anything but a social get together with people of similar interest's.  If it progresses it is due to mutual consent only.  No pressure of any kind will be tolerated.....

"I am married, but my significant other would not be interested in joining. Can I still come"?

"My partner is "lacking" in this area, can I join alone"?

(We have heard them all)

 NO. If you are part of a couple/married one would not join without the other. Do not ask.

We will not put the club or our members in harms way.

People know people, who know people, we would find out*

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